This is the law about
beast and bird and every living creature that moves through the waters and
every creature that swarms on the ground, to make a distinction between the
unclean and the clean and between the living creature that may be eaten and the
living creature that may not be eaten. (Vayikra / Leviticus 11:46-47; ESV)
I don’t like
sales people, especially the ones that phone me or come to my door. I am not
proud to admit that I have been downright rude at times. I don’t trust them.
They tell me they’re not selling anything when they are, they say that their
pitch will take five minutes, when actually they want my attention for an hour
or more. They pretend to be nice, but demonstrate no sensitivity whatsoever to
me, the potential customer whom they claim to be serving.
The word to
describe how I relate to sales people is “prejudice.” It means to “pre-judge”;
to make a prior judgment of someone based on something about them. People used
to make a lot of fuss about prejudice. We were taught, and rightly so, that we
should not pre-judge someone on the basis of their skin color, for example. We
were taught, rightly so, that a person’s ethnic background didn’t mean that
they were good or bad, intelligent or not, and so on. We were encouraged,
rightly so, to get to know people before making any determinations with regard
to their character or abilities.
Today, we
don’t hear much about prejudice. Now it’s “discrimination.” Discrimination has
become one of the greatest evils of all. It’s not enough to only avoid
pre-judging someone, we are told not to judge them—period. Instead of learning
to treat all people fairly, which was the goal of confronting prejudice, we are
expected to treat everyone the same. Current anti-discrimination philosophy
insists that we make no moral judgment on anyone ever (except possibly on me
for saying so!).
What many
don’t realize is that discrimination, far from being the natural outcome of the
movement against prejudice, it’s actually the cure. The reason why people are
prejudiced is that they haven’t learned to effectively discriminate.
Discrimination
is the act of discerning differences and acting upon them. Discrimination is
absolutely necessary in life. It is what keeps us from eating poison, or making
dangerous wrong turns, or pursuing destructive relationships. Without it
everything looks the same and everything is treated the same.
Now, I am
aware that one of the definitions for “discriminate” is “to unfairly treat a
person or group of people differently from other people or groups” (http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/discriminate).
I know enough about words to understand that they mean what they mean based on
how people use them and that discriminate is being used to describe this kind
of injustice. I believe that God calls us to be against this kind of
discrimination. The problem I am addressing, however, is that using this word
in this way is fomenting moral confusion in our culture.
The cure for
what is being labeled as discrimination is not avoiding discrimination, but learning
to properly practice it. This is because not everything is the same. This is
what God is teaching the people of Israel in this week’s parasha (English:
weekly Torah portion). The people needed to “make a distinction between the
unclean and the clean.” The Hebrew for “make a distinction” is ba-dal’, meaning
“to separate, make distinction, distinguish.” When they looked over the animal
kingdom, they were to distinguish between those animals permitted for
consumption and those that were not. They were not all the same. These laws
were a special part of Israeli Old Covenant culture designed to drum into the
psyche of the people the principal of discernment or, as we might say,
discrimination.
If I would learn this important lesson,
then perhaps I wouldn’t be so hard on sales people. My problem has been my
being prejudiced against them with no desire to discriminate. I usually don’t
want to take the time to discern the nature of the various sales calls I
receive. I want to treat them all the same. More than once I have almost ended
conversations with people that I really did want to talk due to my lack of
discrimination.
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